With less than "almost total suspension of your home/family life, a moderate risk to your physical person" you can easily net 90K per year especially if you put in "10hour days 6-7 days a week" just working ON your business. Honestly, Jeremy, 90K just isn't that much anymore and certainly not for the risks both emotional and physical that you describe.
The hidden bonus here is a) you probably will not get blown up cleaning carpets and b) you will be building equity in an investment that (properly run) will keep appreciating to help provide for your comfortable retirement. Plus there is no amount of money that would have taken me away from my children long-term and maybe forever when they were small.
It is seldom that virtually everyone is unanimous here. Listen to what your "internet brothers" are telling you, Jeremy.
Steve
PS At the very least wait till after
SFS in Langhorne before making a decision. You may feel very differently about both this industry and your potential in it after our five days together. If you don't- then we will have failed you.